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So there you just met a girl on the night out. She noticed you, and then you started talking a bit…next thing you knew you lost your train of thought and the conversation staled and you froze there sweating without ever releasing another word from you mouth.

This problem of keeping a conversation going after after the intial intro-fluff talk is very common social dynamics interaction, typically after you asked her all the trivial intro-questions, like “What’s your name?”, “How are you?”, “Where are you from?”, etc.

Now do you have the same problem when you are talking to your friends and family?

Look you’re not the only one who thinks that. The same thing comes to her, and thinks she is a bad conversationalist as well.

How to handle this?

The most common thing from here is to inquire her and just be fascinated in what she says. The thing is, this is the same boring thing all the other guys will do, besides what are you…an interviewer?

Another thing is use storytelling. Storytelling will be the thing that will fuel most of any social dynamics interaction, but if you don’t have any stories or relevant stories, I recommend you build up on some memorized stories to be able to tell at any time. In my magnum opus the Art of Social Natural, I do dwell into a lot of storytelling techniques of how you can use just one memorized story to expand up with unique and different stories that are relevant to the conversation to use every time anywhere.

Now I have this powerful strategy I called “obviousation – Saying the Obvious to Neutralize the Awkwardness (S.O.N.A.).”

(Now say it with me, “Saying the Obvious to Neutralize the Awkwardness”…good

This technique works like a charm.

This brings down a lot of barrier, so it will feel just like interacting to your friends and family when these barriers are not up. You act calm and just say what’s on your mind.

Imagine you’re talking to a girl and abruptly the conversation becomes quiet and there is this moment of awkward silence.

You think you’re to blame and that you are a terrible conversationalist; however she is thinking the same thing too.

When this happens, SONA (Say-the-Obvious-to-Neutralize-this-Awkwardness), just admit in a cool joking manner something like,

“Huh, I guess we’re not great conversationalists are we? We’re both quiet right now? We have nothing to about anymore? You know…I hate when this happens? When 2 people are interacting they both become silent, and usually they assume they are the one who is the terrible conversationalist…but they don’t get is that the other person has the same thing in mid, as well.”

This will release a lot of tension and may follow with a laugh, the laugh of recognition.

And you two can then go into a conversation about “conversations”.

Watch as how she opens up from here, you will progress from this place of being this stranger to being somebody she’s already acquainted with.

Also you show confidence here by eliminating that same tension and awkwardness she feels from being quiet, or she will inevitably do it for you…by “I need to find my friend”.

Ever realize why comedians are skilled at the things they do to come out hilarious? They are ballsy enough to mention the obvious that nobody else is willing to admit, but hey they are comedians and do it in a entertaining way, that’s how they can get away with it.

From here, you can also dig into a cold-reading.

After talk about “conversations”", and there is another awkward silence, SONA again.

“So what can we think about to talk about now? I think this time, you’re the one responsible.”

Be playful with these silence moments.

After when this happens, magically you 2 will feel like insider, and will feel better at ease and relaxed and have a stronger connection.

The way to convey how this feels is become aware the difference in your behavior when you first meet a girl and there is this sort of barrier between you 2 making you both can’t completely relaxed around other each and always be conscious to exhibit your best self.

And after when you have sex, that feeling changes and you 2 feel a lot more at ease because you guys have been through a lot, had your uncomfortable moments, shown your imperfections and you 2 are both ok with it without being judgmental each other.

Not a lot of guys are confident enough to do this. What do majority of guys do? They cling for dear life by continuously asking question; however, by willing to admit this obvious, it conveys balls and honesty, and will penetrate a lot of superficial barriers and get to the real core of her, and you will be seen as different in her eyes.

Knowing how to keep a conversation is only small wonder of what your social skills can do for you!

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